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“Things end but memories last forever.” Said Kumar Milan and no doubt this is a very meaningful quote.

Really our things can end time can fly even people can also pass away but the only thing which always stays with us is our memories, nobody can steal them from us. Every one has some good and bad memories in their lives when we think about our good memories, we feel refreshed and tension free, it brings a smile on our face. However, when we think about our bad memories, our mood gets off and we feel depressed so we should collect as many good memories as possible, but in the Era we are living in, there are many tensions and problems in people’s lives everyone have poison in their hearts against each other. So the question comes how can we collect good memories in such a situation? For that we need to fix these three things in our minds and should take special care of them in our lives. To forgive, tolerate, and never expect because if we do not expect so if someone does something for us, it is very good, but if not, we won’t be disappointed.

Secondly, if we create tolerance within ourselves, there will be no arguments and even the fight will also not increase. Last but not the least, if we starts forgiving so we can overcome resentment, anger, hatred, desires for revenge, and other negative feelings. Believe me if we start following these three points so our life will become very beautiful and will be filled with good memories because lack of tolerance, expectations and it is this unforgiving habit that breeds hatred and hatred destroys our lives. It turns the good moments of our lives into bad. To be honest, there is no benefit in these hatreds because life is too short, here we do not even know what is going to happen to us in a second. Recently, on 22th May 2020 a PIA plane enroute from Lahore to Karachi crashed only 60 seconds away to reach its destination and there are many more such incidents, this is the reality of life!

“Then what is the advantage of spending life in hatred, we must really live the life.” Ups and downs occurs in everyone’s life but don’t be afraid of them and learn from them too. Give value to each moment of life and make it memorable because the time we have today will not get tomorrow. Try to find happiness even over little things and accumulate good memories. In fact, it is not necessary that if we have a lot of money, only then we will be able to accumulate good memories because I’m sure almost we have all heard stories from our grand parents of their good memories. While, at that time there was no concept of technology, there used to be mud houses, people did not have big cars, but bicycles. Therefore, at that time there was no hatred everyone used to live together with love and that is the secret of their good memories. Well, unfortunately nowadays people are so busy in collecting money and hating each other that they have no consciousness. And, if this continues, we will have nothing to tell our children except hatred.

The fact is, without good memories our life is like a house without a mother because even if there is everyone in the house but there is no mother, then the house seems incomplete. Similarly, life is incomplete without good memories, no matter how much luxuries we have. In fact, good memories never let us get old and they even play the role of a medicine like for example if someone is ill and we remind him of his good memories, they go back to the same moment and feel better so this is the power of good memories. Truly good memories are timeless treasure. We should always stay happy because our today’s little happiness become tomorrow’s precious memory. To be happy we don’t have to do much but just remove the hatred from our hearts, then automatically we will start to live happily and if we are happy so we can make others happy too. Then whenever we will leave this world we will be satisfied with our lives and will take good memories with us. In fact we will always stay alive as a good memory in the hearts of others. So remove hatred and make good memories!!