Girl’s Future-Marriage or Career

Author: Afifa Usman

Girls of middle class begin thinking the things like marriage or career, since the day they born. This is a simple question which comes in the mind of every common girl. Young ladies having a place with normal class have to suffer a lot for pursuing their splendid profession. The common Pakistani custom of Early Marriage places intense societal pressures that restrict girls from continuing their education which is a restraint in their way towards their professional life. In fact, 21 percent of girls are married by their eighteenth birthday, and three percent are married by the age of 15.

Their group of friends demands them to start considering wedding as opposed to career as she touches the age of 19. The minute she leaves her high school, that is the most crucial moment for her. If a girl wants to get professional degree and make her career, at some point her family bolsters her and at some point doesn’t. The girls who agree with the view of getting marry when and where their parents want, is labelled as obedient daughter. In any case, consider the possibility that they deny. In the event that girl says Yes to her profession and study, before her wedding, she is labelled as rude or ill mannered. At the point when those young girls take stand for them, society begins thinking of them as characterless. They are basically given the title of Agitator.

If families don’t encourage and not bear the financial expenses, she borrows some cash for accomplishing her future objectives. There’s nothing incorrectly in doing as such as she is en-route towards a positive end-her career. Families may borrow money for wedding, however don’t permit to do as such for profession.

Individuals begin saying her that she should not go under the obligation for the sake of simple inclination. They need to learn that is not ”insignificant bent” however her fantasies and her future in reality her life. Who you’re to slaughter her by ignoring her dreams? Her future does not lie just before stove and doing those house hold undertakings. She needs to accomplish a bonus standard, something extraordinary.

God has instilled in her those qualities of turning into an official, a bureaucrat, an artist, an analyst, a psychologist, a doctor, an engineer and so on. We have to understand that if a lady needs to accomplish something for her fantasies, let her do. They are neither characterless nor common. They are real architect of our general public. One day they will end up indication of pride-crown of our head which never falls.

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