Singer and songwriter Selena Gomez told us she would learn to take better care of herself on 2015’s ‘Revival.’ On ‘Rare,’ she puts that promise into action. Her third solo album is an act of divine ruthlessness: Gomez dances out the toxins weighing her down and breathes in loads of post-Lizzo “f*** you, I love me” energy. Thankfully, Gomez released her saddest energy before dropping the full album. “Lose You to Love Me” is the only treacly ballad in her whole self-care routine this time around, and her reconciliation with heartbreak, pain and bad habits manifests through mostly dance-y, guitar-driven mid-tempo bops. The title track opens the album, with Gomez celebrating her own uniqueness, noting that she deserves someone who recognises that, too. The song moves delicately, her signature breathy delivery giving her message a bit of necessary vulnerability.